Thursday, March 22, 2018

Blog #40: Live Like a Ghanaian Prince with Guest Dr. Al Sackey




Education Leadership and Beyond:  Surviving & Thriving  with Andrew Marotta
Podcast #40 with MS Principal Dr. Albert Sackey


Podcast link: Podcast #40: Live Like a Ghanaian Prince with Dr. Al Sackey

Do most people have a friend that everybody likes? The friend that seems to have the charm that everyone loves? Meet Al Sackey. Dr. Sackey is a 6’10” larger than life Principal at Nathan Hall MS in Norwalk, CT. Al is also a Ghanaian Prince, growing up in Ghana spending time both in Africa and the Bronx through his childhood.

Al has an amazing personality that can warm a room and those in it. How does he do it? What’s his secret? Al Shares his story in this week’s podcast.



While prepping for the show, I jotted down things about Al that I know about him. It is some of these traits that I think make up some of his magic. I have always been fond of Al, but it wasn’t until I started to practice some of his habits and put them into place in my life that I really saw his greatness. Here are a few:

1. Smile at people: this doesn’t take any talent or effort. It is free and unlimited. Al does this naturally to all that he meets. You instantly feel a connection to him because of his warm smile. Additionally, research shows that if you smile more, not only do you transmit that feeling to others like Al does, you feel better yourself.

2. “Tell them what they want to hear”: Al said this to me years ago. This is how he connects with others: talking about their interests, their passions. Al can relate to so many, not only because of his diverse background, but his ability to make connections with others by learning what makes them tick. He asks questions, relates to some experience, and listens intently.

3. Be authentic, genuine: It is in his blood, his heart. Al displays his authenticity in all as he does. In his role as Principal now, Al models these import traits to the most influential age group there is: pre-teens/middle schoolers.

4. Don’t look at color: Al has taught me so much and we talk about many of these things in the podcast. One of the most important is about race. Al is a great role model for all races by the way his character shines through all things. Take people for who they are, not by the color of their skin.

5. See the best in others:  If this is what you are looking for, you will find it.  Al looks for it and knows each and every person has good in them...and can do good for others.  He makes others around him better by bringing out their best...especially those lucky MS students who get to see big Al each day.

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Book recommendation: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F&^% by Mark Manson


Quote: " My one regret is that I have only one life to lose for my country" Nathan Hale, American Soldier, Revolutionary War


Go out and change the world for the better.
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Andrew Marotta


Check out my book:
The Principal: Surviving and Thriving  125 Points of Wisdom, Practical Tips, and Relatable Stories for All Leaders.
Found on andrewmarotta.com, amazon, and all online retailers.  For bulk orders, email survivethriveorders@gmail.com  Now available in kindle edition. Audible edition found here

Saturday, March 17, 2018

Blog #39 with MS Assistant Principal Anthony Lazzaro: Believe that People are Good!




Education Leadership and Beyond:  Surviving & Thriving  with Andrew Marotta
Podcast #39 with MS Assistant Principal Anthony Lazzaro

Podcast link: Podcast #39: Believe Most People are Good with Guest Anthony Lazzaro


Today's show focuses on not only being a good person, surrounding yourself with good people, but most importantly seeing the good in others. The song by Luke Bryan inspired me: Believe Most People are Good. Think about it: if most people did this, the world would be a better place...and that's the goal right? In the end, we want to leave things better than we found them....A couple of lyrics that stood out for me with this concept:

  • Forgive and make amends: life is short...not good for your soul to harbor bad feelings.

  • Working hard for what you got...Dr. Gilbert says:  nothing is hard, just time consuming!

  • Most mamas qualify for sainthood…'nough said. I am blessed with the #bestmom! as well as my great M-in-L and watching my wife grow into an amazing Mom to my kids has been an amazing blessing

  • Be careful of the nightly news...what are you feeding your brain, your kids?...The news can be quite negative at times.
This song is a great country tune...ck it out!

Today's guest is Anthony Lazzaro--Middle School Assistant Principal in Port Jervis NY. Anthony is an all-around great guy who shares his passions for learning, for students, biking, and ancestry.


Enjoy the broadcast found here with Anthony Lazzaro: Podcast #39: Believe Most People are Good with Guest Anthony Lazzaro

Book recommendation: Talk like Ted by Carmine Gallo

Quote: “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world”
Nelson Mandela


Go out and change the world for the better.
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Andrew Marotta

Check out my book:
The Principal: Surviving and Thriving  125 Points of Wisdom, Practical Tips, and Relatable Stories for All Leaders.
Found on andrewmarotta.com, amazon, and all online retailers.  For bulk orders, email survivethriveorders@gmail.com  Now available in kindle edition. Audible edition found here

Friday, March 2, 2018

Next Play with guest David Maffei, Assistant Principal @ Wappingers CSD




Education Leadership and Beyond:  Surviving & Thriving  with Andrew Marotta
Podcast #38 with David Maffei- aired Saturday 3/2/18
9am live or on the app anytime country 107.7 WDLC, 106.9 WYNC, Wall Radio, & Pocono 96.7

Podcast link: Next Play with guest David Maffei

Next Play! I hear it all the time when I officiate college basketball. Coaches yell this to their players when they miss a shot, make a turn over , or have a bad play. Some players put their head down, don't run back, become unfocused after a negative incident. Some coaches yank that player out of the game, but a lot of times I hear "next play" and the player will snap up and snap out of it and move on. A quick redirect can go along way to helping someone out who just has a failure, mistake, or error.


Why don't we use this in life more? Why sometimes do we let ourselves get down and feel sorry? Who is the person in your life that is yelling next play to you? We are going to have set backs, failures, and falls. I just read in the NY Times about Olympic Champion skater Scott Hamilton. He was recently demoted from the main skating broadcast team on NBC. He said "I felt bad for about ten minutes." He calculated that he fell during his skating career 41,600 times. He also battled cancer! This was just another fall, he picked himself up, and moved on. Next play!

Dr. Gilbert always says: "It is not the amount of times you fail, it is the amount of times you succeed that counts. The amount of times you succeed is directly related to the amount of times that you fail and keep trying."

This episode, we meet David Maffei, the Assistant Principal at Roy C. Ketchum HS in Wappingers Falls, NY. David interviewed with me years ago in Port Jervis and did NOT get the job. He kept a positive attitude, we remained in touch, and he went on to get a job quickly after our interview. David is a great example of the "Next Play" concept. He also is a wealth of energy, positive enthusiasm, and strong leadership. @MrMaffeiRCK



Enjoy the broadcast found here with David Maffei:  Next Play

Book recommendation: Win Forever by Pete Carroll

Quote:
"I can't relate to lazy people. We don't speak the same language. I don't understand you.. I don't want to understand you."
Kobe Bryant

Go out and change the world for the better.
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Andrew Marotta

Check out my book:
The Principal: Surviving and Thriving  125 Points of Wisdom, Practical Tips, and Relatable Stories for All School Principals.
Found on andrewmarotta.com, amazon, and all online retailers.  For bulk orders, email survivethriveorders@gmail.com  Now available in kindle edition. Audible edition found here